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Setbacks happen. We trip & fall flat on our face at various points throughout life.
Some instances are self-inflicted because of our own poor decisions. Others involve things that are completely outside of our control.
In both situations, after things go south, you have only two choices:
No matter how bad our situation, we always control:
And where we choose to focus.
The decision to whine and complain that “life isn’t fair?” 100% our choice.
The decision to blame someone else for why we behaved in a specific (negative) way? 100% our choice.
The decision to let a setback break us? 100% our choice.
I’m not trying minimize your situation or any adversity you’re facing. Life is hard. There are some really shitty situations that great people go through – and it’s not their fault.
Injury. Laid off. Doctor’s diagnosis. Divorce. You name it. Life is full of trials and tribulations. But how we respond to those situations will always be up to us.
We control. No one else does it for us.
If you get your eyes off of what just happened, you can start focusing on your next move. You don’t control the past – you have zero control over changing what happened then. But what happens next?
New England Patriots quarterback Tom Brady was once asked what his favorite Super Bowl memory was. His response?
Brady’s answer is the perfect example of a Competitor knowing what matters most is not what was – but what’s ahead, because what’s ahead is all that you control. Here’s the greatest player of all-time at his position. He’s won multiple championships and lost multiple ones. He knows the joy of winning back-to-back titles and the pain of missing perfection by just three points.
He’s not content with what successes he had prior or consumed with where he fell short. He’s refusing to let past failures & heartbreak define his today. He’s fixated on the one thing he controls: what he does next.
It’s not about your setback. It’s about the lessons you can glean from that situation and what action you take next.
Your past is a place for lessons & learning – not living. What matters most is what you do next.